Questionable parenting: Shakespeare and the father portrayals in his plays

Fathers don’t come off looking too good in the Tragedies, either:

• Titus Andronicus kills one son, disowns two others, and kills his raped and mutilated daughter.
• Polonius, in Hamlet, uses his own daughter as a political pawn, resulting in both of their deaths.
• King Lear destroys his family and thus his kingdom by turning his daughters against not only him but also each other.

Shakespeare’s History plays are by their very nature dynastic so father-son tensions are built-in:

• Henry IV creates such enormous expectations for his son Hal that the young prince rebels and follows the dissolute example of a surrogate father figure, Sir John Falstaff.
• Henry V, the king Prince Hal becomes, has no chance to become a better father than the one he had as he dies when his own son is only nine months old.
• Henry VI, whose father’s death thrusts him onto the throne young and unprepared, disinherits his own son so he can retain his crown.

Shakespeare’s Romances, written late in his career at a time when reflection and something like wisdom should inform the material, dramatize the most extreme examples of paternal cruelty — but also regret:

• Leontes, in The Winter’s Tale, imprisons his wife and disowns his daughter, claiming she’s a bastard and casting her away.
• The king of Antioch, in Pericles, is such a terrible father that the answer to the riddle he commands princes to solve reveals he’s sleeping with his own daughter.
• Prospero in The Tempest juggles the care of his daughter with the legacy of his career choices, and discovers an imbalance he is finally able to correct.

Leontes (Michael Tisdale) is reunited with the daughter he once rejected (left, Daven Ralston), as Paulina (right, Grace Gonglewski) prepares to reunite them both with Hermione. The Winter’s Tale, Folger Theatre, 2018. Photo by Teresa Wood.

These are just a handful of examples; Shakespeare’s plays abound with many other portrayals of father-child tensions. In particular, the characters of Prospero, Pericles, and Leontes are all men separated from their daughters and/or homes for over a decade. This may be Shakespeare reflecting on not only his family but also his home town: We think of Stratford as the place Shakespeare escaped from to pursue his career as actor and playwright and retired to when he quit his theatrical life, but our understanding of Stratford’s role in Shakespeare’s artistic life is evolving due to recent excavations of the home he bought there and ongoing scholarship by the Shakespeare Birthplace Trust.

Playwright Lauren Gunderson, in her play The Book of Will, a valentine to Shakespeare and the First Folio, maintains that Stratford and his family were never far from his thoughts, and that his female characters are inspired by the strong, passionate, intelligent, fiery women in his life, including his daughter Susannah. When she expresses bitterness at her father’s lack of presence and attention in her life, she is assured by one of his former colleagues, First Folio co-editor Henry Condell:

“Oh no, my dear, no. If you read it you’ll see he wrote… so often of daughters. Heroines, great loves, great loss. Daughters all.” 

He wrote pretty great sons too. Perhaps by creating timeless tales of strong children overcoming parental indifference — and worse — Shakespeare was in his way apologizing for his own parental neglect, obsessed as he was by the pursuit of his own artistic satisfaction and glory. He dramatized quite effectively that there are many worse kinds of fathers than an absent one.

But perhaps we’re thinking of this in the wrong way. Maybe Shakespeare never was Father of the Year. Maybe Shakespeare’s artistic legacy, and the fact we’re discussing his literary children over four hundred years after he created them, suggests he is, in fact, Father of the Millennium.

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